Taylor Kurtz
4/7/2010
Breath, Eyes, Memory: Assimilating to the American Melting Pot
Throughout time, countless stories of immigration and assimilation into American culture have been told, but few have been as well noted as the story of Sophie Caco, the main character in Edwige Danticat’s first novel, and a very well renowned one at that, Breath, Eyes, Memory. Danticat’s story shows a very negative side of acclimation and assimilation based on the trying events faced by the main character. Very few girls endure the kind of struggles encountered by Sophie as she tries to find her place in life. Sophie is a twelve-year-old girl who, in the beginning of the novel, lives in Croix-des-Rosets, Haiti. Further on in the book Sophie receives word that she will be moving to New York in America to live with her mother. Sophie is less than thrilled about the move, and this is where the issue of assimilation arises. Already upset with the move, Sophie arrives at her mother Martine’s house, which is in a very poor neighborhood. Immediately, life in America looks bleak, as her mother tells her that her only chance for success is determinant on a successful outcome in Sophie’s academic career. Thus, in essence, Sophie is swiftly removed from her homeland and comfort zone and thrown into a poor new land, where she has only one chance at success, according to her mother.
Similar to how Sophie struggles to acclimate to her new living situation, she also feels out of place when it comes to her family life and relationship with her mother. As a matter of fact, her mother acts as one of the main factors in Sophie’s struggle for assimilation. For one, Sophie is ashamed she looks nothing like her mother and feels as though she is an insignificant piece of her mom’s earlier years of life. Furthermore, while working a job with her mother, Sophie is told by Martine of how she was raped at a young age, which further adds to the lack of comfort Sophie experiences during her time spent with her mother. The relationship between Sophie and Martine becomes further stressed when Sophie becomes involved in a relationship with a boy, Joseph. Joseph asks Sophie to marry her, and when Martine finds out, she forces a virginity test upon Sophie, which does nothing to make Sophie’s relationship with her mother improve. The test forced on Sophie results in her being kicked out of the house, consequently leading to yet another move for Sophie, this time to Providence, Rhode Island to live with Joseph. These encounters lead Sophie to have a terrible mentality towards sex, as well as serious personal appearance anxiety and issues. Her self-anxiety regarding appearance is so serious that Sophie develops the eating disorder Bulimia. According to an article published by Elizabeth Carten on the Massachusetts General Hospital official website, Sophie is a very popular case to be referenced for young girls with self-image issues: “In her book, Breath, Eyes, Memory, Edwidge Danticat shows how the main character Sophie, through her bulimia, deals with the legacy of sexual abuse that she, her mother, and Haitian females in general have suffered” (Carten, pg 1). Sophie knows she was conceived via rape, and this is an issue she deals with internally for years: “When Sophie moves to the U.S…. she immediately becomes her mother’s sole source of comfort and support…She inadvertently becomes both the bearer of the burden of the rape as well as the witness to it, and… inherits the trauma associated with her mother’s sexual abuse” (Carten, pg 1)
Due to her tenuous relationship with her mother, for most of the novel Sophie feels nearly resentful towards her mother. However, the struggles increase greatly after Martine takes a trip back to her home in Haiti. The trip to Haiti is very trying for Martine and leaves her physically ill and nearly incapacitated. Matters are only made worse when Martine tells that she is pregnant by her boyfriend Marc. However, eventually the relationship is somewhat mended as Sophie, along with her husband Joseph, have a fun-filled day and lunch with Martine and Marc. Shortly after this however, the mom begins to go insane, saying the baby speaks to her in the rapist voice. The insanity gets the better of Martine, and Sophie’s mother ends up stabbing herself repeatedly to death. Consequently, Sophie is never able to find her place in a normal life with a consistent loving mother figure or a peaceful family.
Joseph’s relationship with Sophie begins to struggle due to the anxiety she has about sex. The fact that the sex phobia is an issue even with her husband, the man of her life, shows just how insecure with herself Sophie is and how she has thus far failed to assimilate and find her niche’ in life. The problem regarding sex is so great, that Sophie even goes as far as to seek therapy for her. Thus, something as simple as sex with her husband feels wrong to Sophie and makes her uncomfortable.
Therefore, throughout her entire life, Sophie struggles to fit in and find her own place in life. She deals with moving to poor living conditions in a foreign land, being isolated from her family, as well as a phobia of intimacy due to her harsh relationship with her mother. Sophie is never truly at peace with herself or her past until she attacks the cane stalks in the very same field her mother was raped in, thus destroying the act that lead to her struggles to find her place in life.
Works Cited
Carten, Elizabeth. “Eating Disorders in Breath, Eyes, Memory; Dreaming in Cuban and How the Garcia Girls Lost Their Accents .” Massachusetts General Hospital. N.p., n.d. Web. 22 Apr. 2010.
Danticat, Edwidge. Breath, Eyes, Memory. New York: Random House Inc., 1994. Print. The text book.